That doesn't excuse the kind of behavior. There are still fans of the series and as a community I think it's downright disrespectful to go into every thread made just to make a post that doesn't contribute to anything.
Oh absolutely, I can't argue with you here with this quoted segment, and particularly so with the incessant drive-bys. It does irk me that somewhere like NeoGAF is predominantly comprised of attempted witticisms and drive-bys that adhere to the same lines and cliches ad nauseum, thereby drowning out the few articulate posters who may not be fans of the games, but at least offer something to the discussion. And at the same time, as you've astutely said, seem to be hurling stones just for the sake of it. It kills the chance for a discussion and it brings the level of discourse down to YouTube levels, which is kind of a poor sight to see.
That being said, I'm not a fan of the labels tossed around. "Haters" just seems to suggest everyone who has ever said anything disapproving about the trilogy, and it implies conflation of the usual drive-by suspects with people who may not be fans, but genuinely have something to say. I've done my fair share of drive-by hating back in the day, I'll have to admit. At some point I came to reassess myself, realising that while my mind about the games can't necessarily be changed, it would be a lot more beneficial to the community if I attempt to actually properly participate in and facilitate discussions. Can someone like me right now be earnestly called a "hater"? Is there any worth in both extremes polarising the whole environment?
Note how I believe the fans are also culpable in their own way, as has been discussed already by others in this thread. I have observed NeoGAF. I have observed Nova Crystallis. I have discovered that a number of fans have an unhealthy need to snap back at the worthless drive-bys, instead of filtering out who is worth talking to, and who isn't in terms of non-fans. Regrettably, that's adding fuel to the fire, and the culmination of that is - from my perspective - a sense of persecution complex that bolsters intense distrust towards any poster or comment expressing any kind of criticism towards the games. I must have said this back in an earlier thread on this site, but this isn't a healthy kind of position to take. Nor are desires for an echo chamber. I do agree that perpetual critiques are going to get irritating at some point, which is why I implore others to be more open and optimism where they can.
Overall, yes, both sides have to get a grip. And this forum can at least optimistically look like a vanguard on the internet to show how posters with opposing opinions can interact with one another in a manner more befitting of the fanbase than your usual YouTube comments section.
It's either someone mentioning it's perceived short-comings in opinionated detail (therein comparing to XII because of it's "amazing" dialogue and world blah blah) and they usually say the same thing with different words.
Well, there's nothing inherently wrong with this if the topic reaches a point where it does call for it. To do it all the time that it becomes a redundant soapbox may be understandably unnecessary, but let's face it. I'd rather see posts where there has at least been considerable effort put into them than as you've said yourself, one-liners about how Lightning sucks, how she is creepy Toriyama's waifu and how textures look like they're from the PS2 era over and over again.
And the way you've worded that - it definitely sounds like me. I've definitely gone on about how FFXIII vis-a-vís FFXII. Did you have me in mind when you typed that? =P