It doesnt offend me either if someone professes his love for a character I dislike. But it offends me to read that FF XIII destroyed the personality of FF or angry statements about how SE shoves Lightning down "our" throat - like you actually speak for all fans. Such remarks are just not criticism to me , thats hating. And I will just not remain calm if I read stuff like this. Its disrespectful to those who like the character. I know you are one of the "its my opinion, I can say what I want" faction that doesnt think they should show no regard to other peoples feelings to these things and I know you think I should remain calm regardless what you say and how you say it about the game but I wont.
Because I am the exact opposite. I believe that someone should not justify everything he says as "its my opinion". even if its your opinion, it doesnt give you the right to use that to be offensive towards something that others love if you are in the same room with them so to speak. In my opinion fans within a community should not only be respectful to each others opinion but to each others feelings and tastes. Criticism can be done without offending the people who love what you dislike. But so often people dont even bother with that. Instead they are all selfish and justify it all with the universal "Its my opinion" speech which apparently in their mind gives them permission to just offend things that their fellow user comrades like. And that just doesnt sit right with me. Just once I want people to be considerate of each other instead of hiding their malicious comments for the millionth time behind the "my opinion" mask.
But I have no doubt you will of course take all which I have just said apart yet again with your next comment to prove why I am so wrong. Which is also why I dont post my thoughts about FF XIII. Because you or the other FF XIII-dislikers here will then just take my post apart like you are doing now the whole time and trying to convince me that I am wrong and make me see the flaws.
Because I am the exact opposite. I believe that someone should not justify everything he says as "its my opinion". even if its your opinion, it doesnt give you the right to use that to be offensive towards something that others love if you are in the same room with them so to speak. In my opinion fans within a community should not only be respectful to each others opinion but to each others feelings and tastes. Criticism can be done without offending the people who love what you dislike. But so often people dont even bother with that. Instead they are all selfish and justify it all with the universal "Its my opinion" speech which apparently in their mind gives them permission to just offend things that their fellow user comrades like. And that just doesnt sit right with me. Just once I want people to be considerate of each other instead of hiding their malicious comments for the millionth time behind the "my opinion" mask.
But I have no doubt you will of course take all which I have just said apart yet again with your next comment to prove why I am so wrong. Which is also why I dont post my thoughts about FF XIII. Because you or the other FF XIII-dislikers here will then just take my post apart like you are doing now the whole time and trying to convince me that I am wrong and make me see the flaws.
And I am not speaking for every single FF fan. I was saying that I understand why FF fans that are tired of Lightning are mad at SE because they have been fed nothing but Lightning for a whole generation.