I see why you are aggravated by the current state of FFXV, OP, but I fail to see how those things (which some of the most 'aggravating' are pure speculation by yourself) should actually matter to the others.
I mean, you then go in full swinging mode and illustrate why is that this things make you not want FFXV using a horrible metaphor with women, that was kind of pointless, really, and only weakened your 'argument'.
I don't really care about Nomura's passion nearly as much as I care about being served a good game in a timely fashion, or even being given actual concrete information about games. I don't know if Square's management did the right decision in booting Nomura off (when was the last time they had a good decision?) in regards of the actual game quality, but what I do know is that since that event became 'public', it suddenly looks like FFXV not only does actually exists outside of pre-rendered 'gameplay' scenes, but may also be coming out in less than 5 years! Not only that, but the regular updates promised by Nomura are now happening, we are even getting a demo with an actual release date.
Maybe all this is just a plan by Square's management to make me believe in Tabata, but he actually looks 100 times more competent than Nomura at this thing.
Now if only Ishimoto could compose some tracks for this game.